How To Meet Gals

Men question me about " finding a girlfriend " and "how to relate to women " and other such topics frequently .

Nevertheless, honestly, the best answer for all of these kind of questions is "experience."

But naturally the next question is how do you get experience if you don't know how to attract women?

You do it by meeting women and approaching women any way you can in large droves. It is called serial dating. And when I authored my first book "How I Got 700 Dates In One Year" it caused a little controversy.

I guess I should clarify. I am not a cheater and don't believe in cheating. That is not what serial dating is about. Serial dating is about the times you are NOT in a relationship. It is about what you do in between relationships. It is about sensibly selecting a companion.

Now I would be the first one to agree that a person who "multiple"� or "serial"� dates with no purpose of ever doing anything else would have at least some major "relating"� issues.

But, serial dating applied inside the right context is not only not dysfunctional, but it is quite the reverse. Serial dating done to get a better awareness of the opposite sex, so you can figure out who you have a preference for, and what you like, and what kinds of individuals like you, is about the most mentally healthy thing you can do.

Do you remember what good old mom and dad use to say to you when you were a teenager?

"Don't get too serious with one person. You need to meet and date different people.

It may seem childish, but this teenage advice is what most adults who are looking for a mate need to remember.

First of all, most adults never followed their parent's recommendation and dated lots of people. Most people seem to have a pattern of connecting with the first acceptable� person who shows them some real interest.

Regrettably, there is a difference between "acceptable�" and "ideal"� and also the fact is that most people commonly continue this routine of connecting with the first "acceptable"� person who comes along well into adulthood.

We call this "settling".

We call this "compromising".

We call this all sorts of names years later when we realize we aren't happy.

You see there are many different sorts of people in the world and, believe it or not, there is someone for everyone. But the problem is you may have to meet a heck of a lot of people to find that one someone.

Another problem is that many people are so confused about life and relationships and people, they don't really have any idea of what kind of personality is a good match for them. They base their ideals off of the Hollywood imagery of what they think they want.

But the cure for all of this is not very complex. You see, when you meet and date a lot of different people a natural learning process emerges. It is called experience. No matter how dumb you are, you figure it out sooner or later. Some people sooner. Some people later. You can learn about anything this way, and there is no better teacher.

And believe it or not, that is all us "dating gurus" have ever successfully done to meet women and attract women . We have just gone out there and got a lot of experience.

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